All Bodies Are Good Bodies

The mainstream is always telling women what we should and shouldn't strive to be. Too fat, you're ugly and eat donuts all day. Too skinny, you're anorexic or on drugs. You shouldn't wear that, instead you should wear this. Your hair needs to be longer, shorter, blonder. Well you wanna know something? It's all garbage. Forget every word of it.
                   As I said in a previous post, I am working to lose weight for health reasons. However, I do not think weight or body type has anything to do with beauty. You can be a size 0 or a size 30 and still be gorgeous. True beauty has no weight limit. I know some GORGEOUS women who are plus sized, and some ugly ones who are tiny. True beauty has to do with not only what's on the outside, but what's inside too. Somebody can look like a playboy bunny on the outside, but if they're ugly on the inside I don't know about the rest of you but I don't find them attractive. Inner ugliness detracts from outer beauty. Not to mention, every person has a different idea of what is beautiful. Some men are attracted to primarily big women, some primarily small women, and the same concept goes for everyone. Some people like dark hair, or blue eyes, or tall girls, or short girls, you get the point. Everyone is not going to find the exact same thing attractive, and that's part of what makes us unique.                          
                    The most important thing to remember no matter what your size is that CONFIDENCE MATTERS! Be happy with who you are. It's ok to want to better yourself, but do it for you not for anybody else. Who cares what Cosmo says, or some guy, or the bitchy girl at work? What matters is what you think of yourself. If you're confident in who you are, it shows. People notice it. People are drawn to confidence, nobody wants to be around a Debbie Downer who puts herself down all the time. Jesus Christ had haters, do you really think any of the rest of us are exempt? No matter how big or small you are or what you look like, somebody isn't gonna like it. You have to love yourself regardless, you shouldn't rely on other people in order to feel good about yourself. Confidence and self-respect are beautiful! You can weigh 90lbs or 400 and if you're confident in who you are and what you look like, you're fabulous. I just wish more women would stop trying to change themselves to please other people, when really the only person you should be trying to please is YOU! You're all beautiful, and don't let anybody tell you differently.